Category: Baby


Reeves, I am your father.

First off let me apologize for the geeky title.  Also, let me clarify that geekiness by saying I know that Darth never actually said the phrase “Luke, I am your father” contiguously.  Now that that’s out of the way, let me get to the point of this entry: I am a father!  Reeves Alan Earl was born on February 8, 2009 at 8:52 AM.  He weighed exactly 9 pounds and was 21 inches in length.

Sound Asleep

Sound Asleep

 The photo above almost looks staged.  It has been such a great experience becoming a parent.  It is unlike anything I’ve done before.  Labor was intense.  It’s definitely a bond between Ashley and I that I feel makes us so much closer.  She was amazing.  I can honestly say I don’t think I could’ve done what she did.

I actually started writing this post a week ago, but just now got around to publishing it.  In that short little time Reeves already looks so much bigger.  Not that I have very much experience with newborns, but he acts and looks like a baby that’s more than 2 weeks old.

Hopefully, since I have someone to write about other than myself, I will be inspired to write more frequently.  For more photos of Reeves and the family, be sure to check us out on Flickr and Facebook.

Threatened To Write

I’m not even sure I feel like writing posts anymore. I frequently update my status via Twitter and Facebook. I really don’t have a good reason why I don’t write posts anymore. It’s certainly not for a lack of interesting things going on in my life.  I think the best reason I can come up with is the time it takes to sit down and write a post, versus one-liners.

Ashley and I decided to make the plunge and become home-owners.  It was a rather hectic time, and we just couldn’t seem to get the many aspects of our lives to line up.  We were living in a 3rd floor loft when we found out she was pregnant.  As per the landlord’s suggestion, we decided to break the lease without penalty and look for somewhere else to live.  It seemed a good a time as any to buy a home.  After looking and finally finding what we felt was the perfect house, the negotiations on price fell through.  After already having committed to being out of the loft by a certain time, we were forced to move into an apartment.

We decided to build in the same neighborhood as our perfect house.  It worked out much better.  We’re getting more house with exactly what we want it, for less money.  In the interim we moved into a one bedroom apartment on Daniel Island.  There was a little mix-up with the elevator not working for our move-in, but other than that the apartment hasn’t been bad.  I’m just anxious to have a real house to take care of, so I find every little problem with the place now.  Our only real problem is not enough space.  Ashley, Reeves, Tucker and I are quickly running out of room.  Our closing date is in the middle of March, which is another story in itself.  That day cannot get here soon enough.

I’m back at VarnerMiller as their Systems Engineer.  I do miss the folks over at the college of knowledge, but I enjoy my work now many times over.  It’s more challenging and I have the ability to be more creative.  I couldn’t ask for more in a job.

Ashley’s due date is January 29.  Technically the date is February 11, but we like the original date they gave us better.  Also I’m not a fan of the month of February for two reasons.  First, it’s spelled weird.  FebRuary is just weird.  Second, the number of days in the month of FebRuary changes, which is simply annoying.  Last I knew, we’ve decided on Reeves Alan Earl as a name.  Most people either love it or hate it, which I’m okay with.  We’re ecstatic to have our first child.  I know it’s going to be rough, no doubt about that, but I’m still very humbled by the entire experience.  Just yesterday, I commented about how strange it was that I am no longer creeped-out at the OB/GYN.  It’s so obvious to see the guys in there for the first time.

I’ve commented on most of the major things in my life, that I can remember.  To be honest, I was pressured to write from Ashley.  While I won’t discuss specifics, I did not take her threats lightly.  :-)

Just A Few Updates

I’ve found that as I get better updating my status on Facebook and Twitter (mainly thanks to my new iPhone 3G – that’s another story), I’ve gotten worse at writing blog entries. I can’t promise that I’ll get better either.  I thought I would just jump in and update about our lives.

I’ll write about the most important first.  Ashley and I are having a baby.  She’s due January 29 so we still have a ways to go.   Her little belly is starting to poke out just a tiny bit.  I have to say she is so beautiful with it.  In about 6 weeks we’ll be able to tell the sex.  My old coworker and her husband, who are also having a child, have decided to wait to find out the sex.  Ashley and I aren’t that strong-willed and are dying to know.  So much so, she wanted me to buy some 3D imaging scan that would tell us the sex at 16 weeks.  For now I’ve held off, but we shall see.

Baby Earl

Baby Earl

As I’ve previously discussed, we’re now living in the top floor of an old house.  After mentioning the baby to our landlord, he graciously offered for us to leave our lease early with no penalty to the security deposit.  I didn’t even ask, matter-of-fact I made a point to say we would honor the lease.  Because of his generous offer, we have started to look at purchasing a home.  We haven’t sat with a lender yet, but have briefly spoken with our amazing real estate agent/college friend.  We’re both very anxious to own our first home and feel now couldn’t be a better time to buy.

The third and final big change I’d like to talk about is my job.  I am no longer employed with the College of Charleston.  While only there for a little under two years, I really did enjoy my job and coworkers.  I’m going to miss it.  I’ve decided to go back to my previous employer as a systems engineer.  I am really going to enjoy the challenging work.

As I finally finish up this post, I’m anxious to write about new things.

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